Remember how tensed and anxious you were when you first had sex? The whole idea of getting laid excited you and got you scared at the same time. Ultimately though, everything was fine. Strangely, you’re about to do something that reminds you of the first time – you’re about to use a realistic dildo. You’re excited and a little bit anxious at the same time. You don’t know what to expect. All you know is that realistic dildos are synonymous with tantalizing and mind-blowing experiences. Relax, you’re about to have a good time. One you’ll live to remember. Here’s what to do to prepare yourself for a good time.
Be Gentle
This is important because you’ll be using the dildo on your most sensitive part. You can be rough a little as you may have already learned through video tutorials. Make no mistake though – you must be systematic. Once you place the realistic dildo, stroke it gently. As you get more and more aroused, you can be firmer and firmer but only to the extent where you feel comfortable.
Use Some Lube
Your realistic dildo will most likely get you wet. You can also touch your erogenous zones to arouse yourself. Note though, that sometimes getting aroused doesn’t necessarily mean getting wet. Keep in mind too that vaginal dryness can happen to anyone. Such challenges shouldn’t get in your way though, especially when all you have in mind is some great intimacy. For that, get yourself some water-based lube before using a realistic dildo.
Put Yourself In The Mood
You probably already know that when it comes to anything sexual, the mind plays an integral role. If you’re not in the mood, then chances are, you won’t enjoy the experience. Try to relax your mind as much as you can. Play some slow and sensual background music if possible. You can also light scented candles to get yourself in the mood. Be sure to also switch your phone or any other distraction that can interrupt your moment.
Position
Position is everything when it comes to intimacy. It doesn’t matter if you’re all alone or with a partner. You can lie on your back and spread your legs apart a little. Alternatively, you can sit on the edge of your bed or even in the middle. The most important thing here is to ensure you have easy access to your sensitive areas. You can also have your back on the wall then arch your back a little with a pillow.
Lastly remember that the use of a realistic dildo is about exploring your body’s response to different sensations. So embrace the size and the realistic features that come with your chosen dildo, and allow yourself the freedom to explore pleasure in a new, thrilling way.
